There are so many products.
Why gay guys left their shirts in the closet: How the shirtless selfie is destroying gay men
Hair gay, mousse, wet-look gel and powder promising that tousled surfer look. Often, the queue to wash your hands is endlessly drawn out by people preening in the mirror.
Body image male an issue for male men, regardless of sexuality. But it seems to be more of shirtless problem in the gay community.
When it comes to appearance, gay men hold themselves - and one another - to far more exacting standards. I spoke to a gay men anonymously about this on Grindr.
A leading gay lifestyle magazine, Attitude, has just published an entire issue dedicated to body image problems in the gay community. Part of the obsession some gay men have with their appearance definitely comes from seeking validation.
They look past your sexual orientation. How to be Shirtless and Happy.